I am all for women empowerment. I support it a 100%. As women, I respect and I am humbled by how far we have come from the days when we were only expected to just bare children and fix dinner and do laundry and make sure the tomatoes are coming up ok. Don’t get me wrong, these are still traditional female roles which I embrace and accept.
I am proud that most women are now receiving some-kind of an education, having careers, holding down more than one job and STILL baring children, fixing dinner, doing the laundry and making sure that the tomatoes are bought on time.LOL. Today, women can be found in almost all fields of work and they excel. What I love about my sisters is that they don’t want to be a model in the office; she wants to get the same treatment the johns are getting in the boardroom. This breed of women is a super woman. She knows that to survive in a male dominated jungle she needs to be able to roar and show her fierceness so she can survive. There is no room for weakness. There is truly nothing that a woman can’t do…or so we think.
The problem I have with this extraordinary woman is that she believes in her own image and shadow so much that she is ready to shoot down anybody or rather any man, verbally, about his manhood. Heck, she is a man herself- she just happens to look like a woman, dress like a woman, speak like a woman, behave like a woman, and needs some good-good just like all women *wink*. Yes you built your career from scratch and are climbing all the way to the top, yes you can pay your own bills, yes you can afford to vacate anywhere you want and yes you bought yourself that to-die-for ride. These things are material. They can be gone by tomorrow.
We need to stop trying to have all sorts of excuses why we can measure up to men. The truth is simple; we are women because there are things that we can do that men can only dream of, they are men because there are things that they can do that we can only dream off. The strange thing about this situation is that men have learnt to appreciate the things that women are capable of handling well that they (men) cannot. And here we are always trying to outshine and outlast men.
Just because there are things that he can do that I can’t do doesn’t make me any less of a woman.
In fact a sound and mature gentleman will appreciate that I’m a powerhouse in the boardroom, making moves like I’m in a chess game yet I’m still woman enough to admit that I need him. Women have set such high, unattainable standards that men just don’t even bother with that. And we turn around and name-call the women who say, “hey, I’ma get it anyway I can”.
I am in no way saying settle or lower your standards. But do know that men are simple beings; we just over complicate their views because we are so busy trying to understand them because we have the need to be equal to them even in things that we have no business being equal to them for.
Some of y’all super woman have erased the male species from your look book because you believe no one is good enough or can handle you. If a man knows YOU GOT IT LIKE THAT and is still with you, you need to drop the attitude and ride that like a soldier. A man has no problem with your IQ levels and certainly is not intimidated by your bank account. What he actually cannot handle is you reminding him every chance that you can just how you can do for yourself.
NEWS FLASH: you probably never got it good that’s why your attitude is climbing the walls instead of you *hint*.
Ladies; a vibrator is nothing like the real deal. We need to accept and embrace this fact. No amount of lubricant and masturbating and getting ourselves to the destination will ever be just as good as the touch of another, every once in a while. You can try and show your dildo that you are vulnerable but you will get nothing in return as a vibrator cannot open up about its deepest thoughts and dreams to you. You will cuddle your pillow and start fantasizing about your girlfriend’s man.
There is nothing wrong with admitting that you need a man to hold you, there is nothing wrong with admitting that his broke ugly self sends your head spinning in bed. Stop acting like you got it like that because after a few drinks we all know just how badly you need a shag. And there is nothing wrong with the sister who is at home raising her kids while her man is at work. Just like you chose to have a career over nurturing; choose not to belittle her. And quit asking the super powered women who know how to balance child rearing and boardrooms how they manage: they are women- that should be enough for you to know.
You are not less powerful if you have a man to help you out from time to time, physically or otherwise.
The smart women are the ones who know that when it’s all said and done you need that person who will put out all the raging fires of the jungle.*wink*
@MMarcellechic
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