Silent existance

The moment you are not afraid to offend anyone with your words regardless of how sharp or blunt they may seem. The more sense of freedom you will feel. It is a truly exhilarating feeling to address head-on the issues you may feel strongly about. Bite your tough for no one.

A closed mouth doesn’t and never has been fed.

 And actually the more you keep stuff inside and never let it rip…you don’t let the people around you know who you are. And you are further giving people the leverage to continue taking the Mickey out of you and complaining doesn’t help because you let people treat you the way you allow them, through fear or otherwise. Fear is just an empty illusion that is manifested in our minds; we make it bigger than it really is.

 As a DIVA, you have to understand that being a diva isn’t just about how you swag or how good a fashionista you are, being a diva has to go with the attitude and how you carry yourself.

When I say attitude, it’s the air of confidence and grace that a woman exudes, her demand for respect even before she speaks, her ability to grab your attention with her words.

A real DIVA just doesn’t throw out incoherent ramblings just to be heard, she chooses wisely where and how to state her piece; she can gut you like a fish and make you feel loved at the same time. She won’t hold your feelings against you, just as long as you know.

A real DIVA, in all her couture, speaks her mind without a hint of remorse. She confidently says exactly what is on her mind, as politely and as respectful as can be but her tone lets all around know that she means business.

A real DIVA will not publicly humiliate you. For a DIVA to do that, it just means you didn’t heed her warnings and you laid your bed to sleep in it.

A real DIVA doesn’t need to get loud to get heard. She simply lays it down and leaves it to you to accept, embrace or reject. But she won’t go back on what she said.

A real DIVA knows when to remain silent too. Not silent because she is afraid to speak, but silent because silence is another tool to state your mind or position on any issue. She can silently let her opinion be known. DIVA on POWER.

It takes a courageous and brave person to be able to state your mind even when you know there will be a backlash; it takes a strong individual not to be battered by the opinions and comments of others, privately or publicly, to the point of backing down and remaining silent. To remain defiant in your beliefs even when it seems you are going against the tide… that is DIVA on another level.

When you open your mouth and speak your mind, you lay the law about who are, what you will or not accept and want you want. People will know how far to push and when to stop pushing your buttons. You don’t have to be loud, but speak your truth. Just remember that whatever  comes out of your mouth, whether you like it or not’ will be used a window into your heart, mind and inner self, also respect and keep in mind the Law Of Attraction, this is extremely important. We attract what we emit or give out. So think and speak positive as much as you can. Build your mansion and not your dungeon. Never let another Diva dictate who you are through judging your actions and statements. They don’t know your story and are not part of your journey so the bottom-line is unless they have been there; they can zip it and kindly sit down before they are pushed down.

A nice girl always gets to play the mat. And we all love mats to rub off the shit below our shoes, the mat that gets dirty and nobody bothers to wash.

I would rather prefer to be called mean or rude because frankly most of the time when you call a spade a spade, that is exactly how you will be labeled. Very few will call you a straight-talker. I also do recognize the many demeaning remarks uttered in the name of straight talk, as people we must be wise enough to recognize and distinguish between the thin lines of straight talk and disrespect.

Do not let yourself be exposed as an imbecile.

Another thing people have to distinguish between is directly associating your thoughts, however expressed, with something linking to your life. Are you confused yet?

The art of a thinker is one who can express an opinion and address it in the 1^st person as opposed to secondary or third. This way, already they have played with your mind. Do you have the ability to distance the person who said “fuck the police” away from this statement and look at what is going on in the community that may have led them to utter such a statement?

Does your brain hurt?

If you read somewhere that a certain individual said, “Is sex in the morning really worth the effort”, would you assume that they were talking about themselves or just merely posing a question?

This is what unfortunately social networking has done to the minds of countless people in the world.

It has taken away the ability for one to draw several conclusions form a statement before accepting it as “generally” as many may do. It has robbed people of basic mental exercises and left many bare in the English grammar spelling departments.

It has single handedly spoon fed hundreds, and this has led me to wonder if these certain individuals where indeed dim to begin with and social sites have just exposed their mentality or their failure to separate compound statements is an influence from other things? Or does it simply address the different approaches that people take to different things.

Recognize the art of a beautiful mind forcing you to actually think. Do not box it just so you are comfortable with not looking beyond.

I fail to understand how a sense of analysis and reasoning has left some people just because of what is said on face book or twitter; it’s like taking Jay-z’s lyrics literally when we all know he is a figurative rapper for majority of the time. When Hova says, “top down in the winter coz that’s what winners do” do you really think that’s exactly what he means or has he pushed you to look behind the castle he has built with words and dissect it to get to the real meaning of what he’s saying. Or am I taking HOVA’s words way to seriously or far?

So it is, when a real DIVA talks, pay attention to the finer details of what she is saying.

Your great moment of actually gaining wisdom may be missed simply because you refuse to let your mind be free.

DiamondDiva